ETIQUETTE & PERSONALITY

THE 20 RULES EVERY TRUE GENTLEMAN MUST ABIDE BY

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A guy is a boy by birth, a man by age, but a gentleman by choice

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They say – Being a MALE is a matter of birth. Being a MAN is a matter of age. But being a GENTLEMAN is a matter of choice.

I believe the quote above to be true. The society has generally adopted the term “gentleman” to mean any man who dresses well in suits and tie, looks good and carries himself very well with confidence, but in reality, this is far from the true meaning of the term “gentleman”.

Don’t get me wrong, I don’t blame the society in any way for assuming that a person is a gentleman just because of his looks or appearance, after all, that’s the tricky thing about FIRST IMPRESSIONS.

Most people will judge you within the first 7 seconds of meeting you and would form an opinion about you instantly based on your appearance, demeanor, body language and most importantly how you are dressed.

But here is the thing…For a True Gentleman, looking good is only half the battle. Being a gentleman is about etiquette and decorum. It is a lifestyle choice which you must LIVE, rather than simply Be ACTING like one anytime you need to.

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Mark Hedges, the current Editor of Country Life Magazine said – There is no higher accolade than to call a man a gentleman.

To say the least, a True Gentleman is a chivalrous, courteous, stylish and honorable man.

 

Here are 20 rules every true gentleman must abide by.

 

20 RULES OF BEING A GENTLEMAN

 

FURTHER READING: 12 Ways To Be A True Gentleman To Your Lady

FINAL THOUGHTS

Being a true gentleman is all about having a combination of good dress sense, good manners, and quality lifestyle. It is a lifestyle choice that one has to commit to.
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I am aware that improving yourself doesn’t happen overnight but if you are serious about improving your sense of style and becoming a classy modern gentleman in as little as 30 days, I recommend reading our Style Guide – KOBI KOACHMAN ULTIMATE GUIDE TO MEN’S STYLE | A HANDBOOK FOR THE MODERN GENTLEMAN.

This guide has been designed to give you a basic foundation that would help you start your Style Journey towards becoming a modern gentleman. We guarantee you that if you follow these guidelines, you will begin to look great, feel great and become a well-rounded classy gentleman in just 30 days.

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Thanks so much for stopping by. If you have more thoughts to share on this topic, kindly leave them in the comment section. I’ll be happy to hear from you.

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Until next time … Continue to Do Well, Live Well and Dress Very Well. Be a True Gentleman!

 

Yours in Style,

Mr. Kobi [Kobi O. Mbagwu] Founder, MrKoachman.com
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Mr. Kobi

I am Mr. Kobi, a professional style consultant, menswear blogger & entrepreneur who uses fashion to change people’s lives. My personal goal is to help gentlemen dress better, live well, do well and develop a unique personal style that matches with their lifestyle and goals. I believe that success can be built through style. I believe that fashion is a tool that can be used to change people’s lives positively. I strongly believe that if you dress well, you look good, and if you look good, you feel good and when you feel good, you worry less, and the less you worry the more you are able to stay motivated and focused in your goals pursuit and by so doing you are able to live a more fulfilling and successful life.

I am Mr. Kobi, a professional style consultant, menswear blogger & entrepreneur who uses fashion to change people’s lives. My personal goal is to help gentlemen dress better, live well, do well and develop a unique personal style that matches with their lifestyle and goals. I believe that success can be built through style. I believe that fashion is a tool that can be used to change people’s lives positively. I strongly believe that if you dress well, you look good, and if you look good, you feel good and when you feel good, you worry less, and the less you worry the more you are able to stay motivated and focused in your goals pursuit and by so doing you are able to live a more fulfilling and successful life.

10 Comments

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  3. Fortune Idahosa

    June 16, 2016 at 8:07 PM

    Dear Kobi I just want you to know that I have been following you hard and you are a Custodian of Style…You have earned your place as my Style Mentor Thank you sir….How can I get the book A guild for Gentle Man book and how much does it cost

    • Mr. Kobi

      June 17, 2016 at 10:46 AM

      Hello Fortune, I’m truly honored! Thanks so much. The book is entirely free, go down to this page link below, subscribe and you have have a link to download for free. The subscription enables you get new articles delivered straight to your box. I’m waiting..Thanks once again.http://mrkoachman.com/subscribe

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  5. #LEADERS EVERYDAY EVERYWHERE *LEE*Syndrome

    August 5, 2016 at 6:47 AM

    thank you so much sir, since i started following your blog i have always learnt new things…..i have never regreted…..thanks once again

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