How Others See You Isn’t Important. How You See Yourself Is Everything

The only opinion that matters is the person you see in the mirror. Make peace with the mirror and watch your reflection change.

How you see yourself is everything

How Others See You Isn’t Important. How You See Yourself Is Everything

You cannot control how other people are going to feel, think, or treat you; Some people will like you, while others would hate you. Some would praise you and support you, while others will judge you and spread lies about you.

You simply cannot control people’s judgments about you, and the fact is that other people are not qualified to judge you fairly.

By seeking other people’s approval of you, you are giving away the ability to control knowing who you are.

As long as you keep caring about what other people thought of you, you are never going to have true confidence in yourself.

When we realize this fact, we can shift our focus to the one thing that matters most in this life; one thing you have absolute control of, and that is how we see ourselves.

Focus all your efforts on doing what is best for yourself, making the most of your gifts and talents and let go of what anyone says or thinks about you.

“Be proud of who you are, believe in yourself and never be ashamed of how someone else sees you. What matters most is how you see yourself”.



How you see yourself is everything

The mind is everything. What you think, you become!



On a final note, I just want to let you know that it is okay if you have a few haters. After all, some people will disagree with you and a lot more people won’t believe in you. Not everyone would like you no matter how hard you try, so don’t ever try to please everyone instead believe in yourself and keep moving forward.

While they hate, strive to achieve greater things in life. Nothing displeases your haters more than seeing you succeed. So these people should motivate you to constantly do better in life. Let your success speak to them.

One day the people who didn’t believe in you will tell everyone how they met you. Until then, continue to do well, live well and dress really well.


Stay Motivated!

Yours in Style,

Kobi O. Mbagwu (Mr. Kobi)
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Mr. Kobi

I am Mr. Kobi, a professional style consultant, menswear blogger & entrepreneur who uses fashion to change people’s lives. My personal goal is to help gentlemen dress better, live well, do well and develop a unique personal style that matches with their lifestyle and goals. I believe that success can be built through style. I believe that fashion is a tool that can be used to change people’s lives positively. I strongly believe that if you dress well, you look good, and if you look good, you feel good and when you feel good, you worry less, and the less you worry the more you are able to stay motivated and focused in your goals pursuit and by so doing you are able to live a more fulfilling and successful life.
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