The only opinion that matters is the person you see in the mirror. Make peace with the mirror and watch your reflection change.
How Others See You Isn’t Important. How You See Yourself Is Everything
You cannot control how other people are going to feel, think, or treat you; Some people will like you, while others would hate you. Some would praise you and support you, while others will judge you and spread lies about you.
You simply cannot control people’s judgments about you, and the fact is that other people are not qualified to judge you fairly.
By seeking other people’s approval of you, you are giving away the ability to control knowing who you are.
As long as you keep caring about what other people thought of you, you are never going to have true confidence in yourself.
When we realize this fact, we can shift our focus to the one thing that matters most in this life; one thing you have absolute control of, and that is how we see ourselves.
Focus all your efforts on doing what is best for yourself, making the most of your gifts and talents and let go of what anyone says or thinks about you.
“Be proud of who you are, believe in yourself and never be ashamed of how someone else sees you. What matters most is how you see yourself”.
On a final note, I just want to let you know that it is okay if you have a few haters. After all, some people will disagree with you and a lot more people won’t believe in you. Not everyone would like you no matter how hard you try, so don’t ever try to please everyone instead believe in yourself and keep moving forward.
While they hate, strive to achieve greater things in life. Nothing displeases your haters more than seeing you succeed. So these people should motivate you to constantly do better in life. Let your success speak to them.
One day the people who didn’t believe in you will tell everyone how they met you. Until then, continue to do well, live well and dress really well.
Yours in Style,
Kobi O. Mbagwu (Mr. Kobi)
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